{"id":695,"date":"2022-06-23T17:21:52","date_gmt":"2022-06-23T17:21:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/m-condit.info\/beautiful-step\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=695"},"modified":"2022-06-23T20:42:39","modified_gmt":"2022-06-23T20:42:39","slug":"693-2","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/m-condit.info\/beautiful-step\/podcast\/693-2\/","title":{"rendered":"The Condom in the Suitcase &#8211; How To Build Trust"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/2qox59RXL0mIv9whKAvSuW?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"232\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Episode Number: 5<br \/>\nTitle: The Condom in the Suitcase &#8211; How To Build Trust<br \/>\nShow Description: The keys to building trust found in this episode are foundational for your relationship happiness. Kris and Charity tell some hysterical stories about how they have learned to build trust with good action over time. They also address how to communicate when trust has been broken or is needing to be built. 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